A Little This...A Little That

This Week

2012-01-27T14:56:00.001-06:00

In my life this week…

The week started off with a busy schedule, but ended with the girls getting sick and I shortly followed behind. We did have a fun day celebrating our close friend's 3rd birthday.

In our homeschool this week…

We were pretty relaxed. There was less seatwork than normal, but I am sure the girls learned just as much as normal.

I am inspired by…

Those that continue to strive or work towards a goal when they are uncertain.

Places we’re going and people we’re seeing…

We won't see many people this weekend since we are all full of nasty germs. We will be resting so that next week can be better.

My favorite thing this week was…

An early morning conversation with Ramya. We were discussing a television character.

Ramya: This is for Dorothy.

Me: Who is Dorothy?

Ramya: She's on Elmo's World.

Me: Is Dorothy a girl?

Ramya: No, Dorothy's a boy.

Me: (exaggerated voice) Dorothy's a boy!

Ramya: No, she's a girl.

Me: (exaggerated) She's a girl!

Ramya: I'm confused!

I just love our morning talks, and how she uses words I don't realize that she knows.

What’s working/not working for us…

My busyness. I tend to volunteer for things that I shouldn't. It's not that I do not enjoy the things I volunteer for, but it effects other parts of my life.

I’m reading…

Book of John, The Five Love Languages, and Changing Course

I’m grateful for…

The time I have been given to think and reflect on choices I make. I can go forward with a better understanding when I take the time to think rather than rushing into a decision. I know sometimes time is not always on my side so I make a hurried decisions, and it doesn't work out as planned.

My Heart's Desire

2012-01-16T14:40:00.000-06:00

Lately the words of Yolanda Adams' song "My Desire" have being playing in my heart and mind. The chorus sings:
My heart's desire (my desire is) is to be a vessel, Lord.
I want to be used by you
Please let me be

This song was released in 1995, so when I heard one of the commentators mention on the Broncos/Patriots game I really felt like it was a nudge for me. Then there was A Thorn Among Roses post telling us "don't just think about serving this year...just do it. and do it well."

So this morning the girls and I headed over to Midwest Food Bank and served. The girls were thrilled to be able to help others. They were so into it that we managed to stay a little over 3 hours. So in the midst of our serving I reflected on what I was thankful for in that moment.

Three Gifts in the Moment of Serving:
1) the physical strength and ability to lift and move objects
2) gas in my car to get us to the food bank
3) a heart that wants to serve others

Today was our first time serving at the food bank, but it definitely will not be our last.

He's at Work

2012-01-14T07:11:00.000-06:00

A few months ago, I resigned by myself from being frustrated and stressed over my tutoring business. I really could not figure out what I was doing to not have a few more students, and this stress was definitely interfering with other aspects of my life. So I finally gave it up.

Fast forward to the first week of the new year. I lost a client, but instincts prepared me for this. His mom was blessed with a new job, and could no longer commute the 40 minutes for his sessions. But, I gained 4. Yes, 4 new students. It is amazing how the Lord works. Each of the students I gained came from past marketing. Not from anything that I had been doing recently when I was stressed and confused about all the things I must be doing wrong. I had already planted the seed, and He waited until it was the right time for us to add new students. I am so thankful and grateful that the Lord is trusting me to help these students meet their academic potential. This has reaffirmed that my timing means nothing but His means everything, and ultimately He has our best interests at heart.

Have a Blessed weekend!

Back to Life

2012-01-10T16:53:00.002-06:00

The past few months have gone by in a blur. I have had quite a few moments of uncertainty {my tutoring business, making myself available to others & recovering financially}, and frustration {a dog that runs away often and neighbors who are critical of this flaw}. During the times when I feel lost and unsure, I am more than likely missing out on the awesomeness of motherhood. This is an area that is under construction, and I know with God's grace that it will get better. Last week, I made a choice to stop dwelling on any and everything that was pulling me away from those things that bring me peace, and to start back enjoying the life {even the parts of it that are not so great} God has bestowed me. This reflection happened while the girls and I were out bowling. I had not realized until that moment how much I had been missing out. Simple things like their laughter and smiles and watching them try really hard to get something done. I am so thankful for the revelation...I really would not like to be in such a fog that I am missing out on life forever.

Last Day of 2011!

2011-12-31T14:02:00.000-06:00

I can't believe 2011 is coming to an end, well, actually I can. This year has gone by pretty fast. It seems like all the days have gone by so fast. I think fall lasted the longest out of all the seasons.

For me, 2011 has taught me quite a bit about myself and my family. The highlights of our year were:

My husband and I celebrated 8 years of marriage :)
We adopted Eva (1 year old Lab/Pit mix). She is now two, and is teaching me a lot about patience, forgiveness, and consistency. I swear I thought I knew a lot about these things, but I am learning more each day.
My husband and I learned more about financial responsibility, and how to be diligent with all God has blessed us with no matter how much that may be.
My sweetie graduated from college, and we both were so happy that it had finally come to an end. There were some rough times in there, but we made it through. The funny thing is the roughest times were during the last semester.
Of course the girls became one year older, and with each year there is more independence. I appreciate their willingness to do a little more. Dania has gotten into the habit of cleaning her room, and commanding others to respect their space. Ramya is always helpful in the kitchen. We have learned quite a few new recipes due to her desire to cook.
Personally, I have grown more with God, and I definitely I am blessed to be able participate in a bible study with women that help me along my journey. He has definitely placed quite a few awesome people around me and my family, and for this I am grateful.

I hope you all have a wonderful New Year's Eve! I am so looking forward to 2012!

Be Blessed and be a Blessing :)

Commencement

2011-12-18T11:03:00.001-06:00

I am very happy to share that my hubby graduated this weekend. It has been quite a journey getting to this point, but I am so grateful that God went before us to prepare the way. I know that we could not have made it without His grace covering us.

Our Christmas Card 2011

2011-12-11T14:22:00.002-06:00

I procrastinated on the production of this year's card. I decided to keep it really basic by choosing one photo. For those that I will not be able to send a card to I am glad to be able to share our card with you through this blog.

Photo Card

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Dania Turns 7

2011-12-06T15:26:00.001-06:00

Dania turned 7 this past weekend. I was happy for her, but somewhat sad. It seems like the years are going by faster and faster. This was the first year that she could remember that we did not have a full blown party. I think I can confidently say that she still had fantastic birthday without the party.

The only thing she truly wanted to do was get a manicure.

Dania and Ramya having a great time together.

Staying Warm

2011-11-30T06:35:00.038-06:00

The temperature has been steadily dropping around here. During these times, I am always trying to figure out a way to stay warm without adjusting the thermostat. This usually comes in the form of extra clothing and a few blankets. But the girls have a better idea of staying warm, they love to make hot cocoa. Last week, I happened to come across a copy of High Five, and in it was the cocoa recipe we made a few winters ago. It was a nice suprise to find while cleaning the garage.

Here is the recipe to make any winter day a little bit warmer.

Cocoa with Cinnamon Cream by Kathy Gunst (Dec. 09 issue)

Cinnamon Cream:
2/3 cup of heavy cream
2 TBS sugar
1/2 tsp cinnamon
Place all the ingredients into a container with a lid. Shake the container until the cream looks like whipped cream.

Hot Cocoa

Heat 2 cups of milk over low heat for 5 minutes.
Add 2/3 chocolate chips and a little cinnamon.
Stir until chocolate melts. We usually still have a few chips that did not melt at the bottom of our pot.

Pour cocoa into mugs, and top with the cinnamon cream. The girls truly enjoy making and drinking the cocoa.

This Advent Season

2011-11-29T10:11:00.000-06:00

This is our first year incorporating Advent activities. We are very excited to add this special time to our traditions. Growing up, Victor nor myself, experienced many of the things our children are now able to take part. Many times I wonder how would my personal relationship with Christ would differ if I had such things written upon my heart at an earlier time. Although I reflect on the what ifs, I am thankful that I have this time to learn with my girls and develop a stronger bond with our Savior.

To help us this year with Advent, we will use Truth in the Tinsel. I found out about this awesome book from LaToya @ Christian Momma. We have completed the first ornament, and the girls are looking forward to doing more.

We also made an Advent calendar together.

We used an old picture frame, penny coin rollers, pre-stickable labels, ornament hooks, string, and glitter glue. It's not that fancy, but the girls and I really enjoyed making it together.

Blessings!

Me & My Blog: A Photo Memoir

2011-11-09T16:57:00.000-06:00

Today during my periodic Facebook check, I noticed Carlie @ So You Call Yourself a Homeschooler? status update. She was sharing her Me & My Blog post. I checked out her post, and decided "Hey, I want to get in on that!"

The original post at Finding Joy encourages fellow bloggers to take a photo with something they find joy. I find joy in blogging and my girlies. So I felt it was only right for me to let Ramya be in the picture when she made her request.

If you are a blogger, you can get in on the fun by heading over to Finding Joy. You can click the button below, and it will take you to the site.

It's That Time of Year

2011-11-05T20:23:00.003-05:00

All the stores I have been in lately are all decked out for Christmas. I have been receiving catalogs from most of the children's stores. I am not one to fret over gifts, but I love making our Christmas cards. For the past few years, I have ordered our cards from Shutterfly. Our family and friends enjoy seeing pictures of the girls from throughout the year.

Here's one of the cards I made last year.

Front of card

Top inside of card

If you are a holiday card fan, give it a try. I am sure you will love your creation.

* In exchange for my post, Shutterfly will provide me with 25 free cards. This post is based on my experience with Shutterfly's greeting card software, and in no way is my opinion altered by this exchange. Also, the above link is an affiliate link. Bloggers, if you are interested in receiving 25 cards of your own, use this link.

Back Home

2011-11-02T10:20:00.001-05:00

Last year, I rented a small space for my tutoring business. During that time I learned quite a bit about being self-employed and a small business owner. I also learned more about myself. I truly enjoyed having my own space, and pushing myself to achieve the most with my business. But, as a mother, I was feeling torn and pulled into so many directions. There is only so much time in a day, and I know that there wasn't much left for myself or Vic.

This past summer I decided that I would not renew the lease on the office space, and would tutor from home. I did not totally want to give up the business, but I did want to reduce hours. Yesterday was my first day tutoring from home, and I truly enjoyed it. I felt much more relaxed without the additional stress.

What is your approach to balancing family and working or other things that take a bit of your time?

Today I Learned...

2011-11-01T17:20:00.000-05:00

I really enjoy tutoring from home. The girls even proclaimed that it was cool.

Leaf Project

2011-11-01T16:03:00.003-05:00

We created clay leaves after our leaf hunt.

If you would like to make your own leaves, below are the materials you will need.

Take a nice amount of clay to create a ball about the size of a baseball. We flattened our ball by throwing onto the table a few times or you could use a rolling pin. The kids enjoyed the throwing. Once the ball is about an inch or so thick, place your favorite leaf on top. You will use a rolling pin to press the leaf onto the clay. Be gentle or the leaf will tear. After imprinting the leaf onto the clay, remove the leaf from the clay.

We used a self-hardening clay, therefore, we had to wait until the clay was dry to complete. We waited a few days. Once the clay has dried, the leaves are ready to paint.

I usually only purchase acrylic paint in the primary colors. I mix the colors as needed to get orange or any other color we may need. I also purchased a bronze and the red we used had a hint of metallic. After the paint dries, spray with Mod Podge to seal.

Happy November!

Leaf Hunt

2011-10-28T16:23:00.000-05:00

Today we went on a leaf hunt. We are using the leaves in a fall art project.

Next week, I will share the finish projects.

D with her first leaves.

R with her leaf bouquet.

Have a great weekend!

A New Site for A Good Cause

2011-10-25T12:07:00.000-05:00

A good friend of mine has recently started an informative site about reducing the risk of a child becoming missing or abducted. She is very passionate about making communities aware of missing children, and providing resources to help families keep their young, loved ones out of harm's reach. Of course, no matter how precautious one is these horrible acts will continue to happen, but hopefully through her site there may be far less.

If you have a moment or two, hop on over to her site, Parents Against Child Abductions, and follow. You may be the one to help a family find a missing loved one.

Blessings.

Our Homeschool Update

2011-10-11T13:09:00.000-05:00

So far things have been going pretty well. I have had some moments of uncertainty, but not as it relates to teaching our children. I agreed to help a friend with the education of her child, and with this came a few adjustments. It is very different having an additional child in the mix that is not a part of the immediate family. We had to battle some discipline issues, and I had to adjust my teaching style for her specific needs.

During this time of uncertainty, I diligently focused on the positive since there were plenty of times I would have rather pointed out all the things that "I" could not handle. I have been shown that when you offer yourself to someone that the "I" must step back, and work to make the situation better. Over the past few weeks, I have been working on being more patient, understanding, positive, and gentler. I will admit by me working on myself the days have been much peaceful and easier.

They Give Me Joy

2011-09-29T08:50:00.000-05:00

I originally was going to name this post proud mommy moments, but what I actually feel is joy. I am very appreciative of the moments the girls help me escape from a not so great feeling whether it is a overwhelming feeling or during a time I am on the verge of becoming angry. They may not know what power their actions or words may have, but for me at those particular times a small gesture goes a long way.

Here are a few recent gestures:

Yesterday started off well. I had to run a few errands before we began our lessons, and during this errand run I was met with disappointment. This disappointment was tempted to turn into anger. Angry because my day was going to be thrown off. As I was calming myself, Dania looks at me, and points her index and middle fingers towards her eyes and back at me then she says "Focus". At that moment, all my tension left and I was actually able to focus on what was before me. She said just what I needed to hear.

A few evenings ago, Ramya was preparing to brush her teeth. Lately, she has needed someone to be with her in each room she enters. She asks her sister to stay in the bathroom with her. Dania calmly told her "You don't need me. You have Jesus in your heart, don't be afraid." Ramya went on to brush her teeth, and a few moments later Dania went into the bathroom with her.

Those are just a few moments that stuck with me from this week. On a daily occassion I am met with wonderful hugs and words of encouragement from our little blessings. For all these moments, I am thankful.

Have a blessed day!

Lil' Weekend: Annual Pumpkin Festival

2011-09-18T15:37:00.003-05:00

This weekend the girls and I enjoyed the local Pumpkin Fest that takes place each year.

The girls had to be retaught parade etiquette since it has been a few years since we have been to one. You can check out the post about their first parade here.

Once again, we sat next to people who were very instrumental in helping the girls get candy. One lady had a request that the girls share the Tootsie Rolls since they are her dad's favorite, but at some point he decided that he had plenty. The girls were faithful to their promise, and gave him the first one they caught.

About an hour into the parade Ramya decided that it was time for lunch. Luckily, we brought our lunches with us, and she did not have to fill up on candy.

After the parade, Dania and I finished our lunches, and then we headed to the carnival.

The girls rode plenty of rides and had their faces painted. I can't believe I did not take a close-up pic of their faces. Dania was an awesome big sister. She took Ramya down the Super Slide which she had originally declared she was afraid to go down. By the time we left, it was actually her favorite ride.

We had a great day at the Pumpkin Festival!

Indoor Fun on a Rainy Day

2011-09-10T08:37:00.000-05:00

Our weather has been pretty gloomy the past few days. Rainy weather is no fun when you really would rather be able to run around and play. To help the girls burn off some energy we visited a local gym that opens up specifically for young children to have a place to burn off some energy.

The girls had a great time. The gym provided many types of toys. The girls spent most of their time riding on the plasma cars, cute little cars that move when you turn the steering wheel; virtually requiring no pushing.

When they weren't riding, I was rolling them in the big wheel. It was awesome to hear their delight from being rolled from one end of the gym to the other. They also found time to play Wipeout, not sure if any of you watch the show, but the girls and Vic enjoy watching people compete in the Wipeout obstacle course. The gym had mats and ramps set up, and the girls used this area as their obstacle course when younger children were not playing.

We could not have asked for a better rainy day activity. Today is another gloomy day, and the gym is not open so what shall we do?

What do you all do for fun on rainy days?

Life's Blessings

2011-09-09T10:18:00.000-05:00

On days like today, I see all those things wonderful that God is doing for our family.

Today I was sitting at the computer playing with this blog while the girls were watching Sesame Street. The girls have limited television time, and before I knew it. Ramya turned the television off, and joined Dania in their room. Now this may seem very normal, but what made my heart sing is that they went to their room, and began playing songs of praise to the Lord.

Over the summer, we collected a few CDs from VBS, and they are now in their room singing and dancing to songs that are pleasing. And, for this I am thankful.

In the midst of the singing and praising, Dania asked in a very loud voice "What is Hosanna?" Today she learned that it is exactly what she was doing, singing praises to the Lord.

Here's a snippet...Poor quality due to all of the camcorder batteries being dead therefore I used a less high tech cell phone :) Enjoy!

Have a happy and blessed weekend!

Today I Learned...

2011-09-04T08:53:00.000-05:00

that when I hear the click, it is okay to drive away.

Here's how the conversation with my four year old went:

Ramya: Mommy did you hear the click?
Me: What click?
Ramya: My seatbelt.
Me: Oh.
Ramya: You can drive now.

Usually there is a long wait because Ramya takes her time getting buckled. I guess she is tired of waiting.

Get Out and Play

2011-08-31T16:11:00.002-05:00

The past few days, I have truly enjoyed playing with the girls. Twice this week we have been engaged in heart pumping game of tag. And you already know who is always "it". Yes, mommy! I am telling you these three little girls try to wear me out each time we go to the park, which has been everyday this week so far. They seem to be unable to get enough.

Playing and running around with the girls has a great deal of perks.

They are able to get the 60 minutes of active play children should get each day.
I actually get some needed exercise. I do not always get up and run each morning.
We are bonding and strengthening our relationships.
I am privileged to see the joy on their faces each time I agree to play another game of tag.
They drink more water than normal. They could actually go without drinking anything for awhile.
It is just pure, natural fun!

A New Year of School

2011-08-22T10:27:00.001-05:00

We have begun our 3rd official year of homeschooling. Each year is different, but each seems to flow seamlessly from the last to the next. We may add a few things and try to some others differently, but the core of homeschool remains the same.

This year we have dedicated a room for our homeschool. The girls are excited to have a special place to do their lessons and projects.

Here are of few pics of our schoolroom...

Ramya Turns Four

2011-07-31T15:18:00.000-05:00

My baby turned four this weekend. She is finally a big girl. Check out here day below.

Birthday girl!

Friends and family...gotta love them!

Ramya with her sister and grandparents.

Get Up and Go Friday

2011-07-16T12:30:00.000-05:00

I am usually a planner, but over the past few months I have become a little more spontaneous. Yesterday, the girls and I packed a cooler, and headed to Starved Rock State Park. This was the girls first visit.

By the time we arrived, it was time for lunch.

Then we headed to the trails.

The waterfall wasn't flowing, but the girls enjoyed playing in the canyon.

Lover's Leap offered a spectacular view. And, a moment of rest for us.

The girls found many opportunities to play and explore on the trails.

Today I Learned...

2011-07-09T18:05:00.001-05:00

that I am a beautiful mommy.

Thanks, Dania!

Just for Fun

2011-07-06T12:26:00.000-05:00

Today, Vic and I indulged ourselves in the girls' imaginative play. Dania was our waitress at a new restuarant. Ramya was our daughter although we thought we were going to pretend to be a young, childless couple. The clothes hamper was the hostess stand. A Melissa & Doug puzzle was the tray. Our first meal was awesome the waitress was great and very polite. I guess we should let her parents know they have done a great job so far :)

Then came meal #2. After placing our orders, the waitress informed us that other customers were arriving. And can you believe this, we were going to have to prepare our own food. She brought us all of the ingredients and left. Where did she learn this? LOL! Maybe next time we play the good waitress will have returned!

Happy Wednesday!

Today I Learned...

2011-06-30T14:14:00.001-05:00

that playing tag with my two girls and husband is more exhausting than running with Eva, our rabbit-chasing dog.

2011-06-28T17:17:00.000-05:00

The girls have been back swimming since February. I am proud to say that my darling 3 year old has gotten over her fear of the water. Check her out at a lesson.

Summer and Running

2011-06-28T17:07:00.000-05:00

I am so excited that summer has finally arrived in Illinois. It seems the cold months last forever here. The warm weather caught the little ones by surprise during their running series.

Last week, Ramya did not finish her 1/4 mile run instead she walked the entire race, and then she stopped maybe 5 feet before the finish line. This week she did not even attempt the race...she stayed home. After watching several 3 year old children break down, I am glad that Ramya had the foresight to stay home. I could only imagine the outcome if she attempted to run yesterday.

This week was the last race, and Dania went all the way. She ran the 1/4 and 1/2 mile. At the end she received trophies for giving it her all.

Our Holiday card for 2010

2010-12-10T13:53:00.001-06:00

Vintage Provence Holiday 2011 Christmas 5x7 folded card

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Balancing

2010-09-03T15:11:00.000-05:00

Things have been just a tad crazy 'round here. We started school and I picked up my regular clients for the 2010-2011 school year. So planning for my two and the youngsters I tutor has been taking quite a bit of my time. Don't get me wrong everything I do I definitely enjoy, but I am just not use to being so busy. And, not to mention my husband is a little under the weather.

I am believing next week will be better although I will be picking up a new student. I am learning how to balance. I am enjoying the hours that I am able to spend with the girls and pour into them the values and knowledge their dad and I believe are important. Those are the best. I also enjoy helping my students conquer their goals and more. There is nothing like the feeling I get when I see the joy in their eyes after conquering a skill that was once difficult.

Although this week was a little tough, I know all of my weeks will not be like this, and I think I handled this one pretty well in spite of.

Enjoy your Labor Day weekend! Be Safe!

Adjusting

2010-08-19T08:37:00.000-05:00

This was my first week exercising regularly in a long time. I must admit I am exhausted. Those 5:30 am Jazzercise classes are no joke. But, my body has been working with me...somewhat. I have been able to wake up on my own without an alarm, and actually make it to class before the first song starts. I am just hoping that my body will soon adjust to waking up early. I have taken a nap each day since I started, and I have been going to bed before 10 pm.

Jazzercising does make me feel better, and although I am a little tired I feel like I can handle whatever the day brings. So, cheers to new habits (in the form of exercising more than once a week)!

I hope you all are having a wonderful and productive week!

Back in Session

2010-08-17T07:07:00.000-05:00

Yesterday was our first school day. My oldest is now an official kindergartner, and we both are so excited. My youngest is only 3, but she is an eager beaver. She kept asking, "What's next mommy?". I must admit we had an awesome first day back.

I was a little nervous since this year is different from the last. Last year, we had another student with us, and I believe the girls expected him to return this year. Dania, the kindergartner, is somewhat social it really depends on the day, but I know she does enjoy interacting with other children, and this is what causes my nervousness. Although she enjoys having me as her teacher I don't want her to feel as if she is missing out on something. I know I can't totally control it, but I will do my best in this area.

We have quite a few things planned for the 2010-2011 school year. Beginning this Friday, Dania will go to a local childcare center, and read to the 3 year old children (this was actually her idea). She will do this for 4 weeks. Both girls will take ice skating at the end of August. Ice skating, I predict will last all year, but maybe not...we will see. Dania will take piano and sing in the local homeschool choir. I have yet to find any other activities for Ramya, but I am looking into some sort of music class for her. Of course, there will be field trips that coincide with what we are learning, and trips just for us to get out of the house.

As far as curriculum. I am an relaxed, eclectic type of teacher, therefore, we do not use a boxed curriculum.

Dania's Learning Material
Math: KUMON books along with everyday math and ixl.com
Reading: Real books
Spelling: Evan-Moor Daily Spelling
Science: Evan-Moor Everyday Science along with unit studies
Social Studies: Unit studies based on their interests

She will also work from the 1st grade Comprehensive Curriculum and Brainquest books, and Five in a Row.

Ramya's Learning Material
Kumon Early learner books such as Coloring, Cutting, and Pasting
Brainquest PK book
starfall.com
Mommy created material
Lots of reading aloud

So far these are our plans. We are looking forward to an awesome year!

It's Official

2010-05-17T15:25:00.000-05:00

I have not totally forgotten about my blog, but life has really been pulling me in many directions. Earlier this month I leased an office space for my tutoring business. This has been an eye-opening experience for me. Never in a million years did I think I would start/have a business of my own. I always thought I would teach in a regular classroom., but that is not the door that was opened.

I am super excited to be embarking on this new adventure. It isn't always easy, and of course I do not know everything there is about owning a business but I truly enjoy learning what it takes to be successful. I also have found a community of tutors who share ideas about teaching and the business aspects.

Tutoring really allows me to have the best of both worlds. I am able teach and help children learn while being able to spend a great deal of time with my girls. It is also something to see my students grasp a concept, and to see that light shining when they do get it. Right now, I am enjoying the now and the future possibilities of having my own.

Just wondering

2010-03-30T18:21:00.000-05:00

Yesterday, we visited the library. The girls and I are regulars at our local library. So we pretty much know where to go to get what we want. After getting our selections, Dania reminded me that she wanted to read Little Red Riding Hood again. We headed over to the fairy tale section of the library. We all took our turns looking and searching through hundreds of spines, and we could not find a single copy. My resourceful self decided to use the handy online catalog, and discovered there were at least three copies still on the shelf. I trekked over to where the books were supposed to be, and still came up empty handed.

See, I am not the type to really ask for help unless I absolutely need it. My daughter really wanted to read Little Red Riding Hood again so I decided to go ahead and ask an adult. Dania had suggested this when we couldn't find it during the first search. So, I asked a young guy that was shelving books if he would be able to help me find a copy. He says, "you need to be more specific since many authors and illustrators have rewritten the story." I inform him that I understand that, and I am not choosy about which story is found as long as it is Little Red. He goes on to say while looking at his cell phone, "I understand what you are saying but it is too many so it would be best if you just put a copy on hold." Seriously, where is the willingness to help others. I even explained to him that there were copies in the library, and only needed his help finding them. That boy did not budge from the location in which I found him. I guess I did not realize that rude people worked at the library being that it is a place where quite a few people need help.

2010-03-16T08:00:00.028-05:00

We have been a little more relaxed lately. Our learning experiences haven't been with urgency. Over the past few weeks, it has just been the girls and myself so we have been enjoying our time together. Dania still does some paper & pencil work, but we have been learning more through our environment and books.

The girls have been listening to and reading a lot of new stories. Each week we go to the library, and come home with a new bunch of books. Some we have read and others we have not. We spend at least 2 hours of our day reading aloud. Dania also reads alot to herself, and Ramya does the same in her own little way.

In paper and pencil land, Dania has been working on time and money. I have been teaching her computations through stories I make up, and she uses counting bears or another manipulative to show the process. It is a fun way to learn addition and subtraction. While Dania is working in her books, Ramya and I practice cutting and coloring. She loves going over her shapes and colors.

Stepping Stones

2010-03-15T16:06:00.000-05:00

I did not realize the amount of work that it takes to start and manage your own business. I went into this thing thinking oh everything will go great...I mean I am doing something I am extremely passionate about. How wrong was I! Now I am not saying things are going horribly or anything like that, but what I am saying is that it is not easy.

Last fall, I started a tutoring service which provides in-home, one on one tutoring to students in grades K-8. Of course, I am passionate about education and learning so tutoring is an idea job for me. But there is more to tutoring than just tutoring. I am learning about marketing, business finance, and communication. Marketing has been the biggest eye opener for me. It takes alot of time and energy to set up a successful marketing campaign. Oh, don't forget the money that has to be paid for the marketing materials such as flyers, postcards, and a website to name a few. I am embracing this experience. I am learning so much about myself, and balancing business and family.

Outside of the degree I am giving myself in marketing, another great thing is the support I receive from my girls and husband. They get just as excited when the business line rings or when they see our signs or flyers out. They ask questions, and are just wonderful. I couldn't ask for a better support system.

If you have a moment check out my website, and if you have any suggestions post them back here on the blog.

On a Mission

2010-02-08T12:33:00.001-06:00

So I have declared that I will be more in tune with my spending habits. I am not one to just shop frivolously or spend money just because, but I have noticed that I waste money in the area of groceries. Usually I purchase the same things each time I venture to the grocery store. I may add a few new ingredients here and there, but when I do this I really don't have a purpose for them. This month I have started doing something that I used to do a few years ago, and that is making a 7-10 day menu therefore when I go grocery shopping I will only purchase the ingredients I will definitely use.

Today the girls and I went grocery shopping, and it went by so quickly. We were out of there about 35 minutes later with everything that we needed for this week and next. I was also happy with my grocery bill since I didn't have the extras that I may or may not use. I realized my wastefulness when I cleaned the refrigerator after we returned. There were several items that expired which had never been opened. I was disappointed in myself after realizing this because as we know there are several families that do not have money to purchase food, and there are children that go without daily. These thoughts alone made me realize that I have to do better. I will definitely make planning and buying those things I know will be used a part of my spending habits. And with the money I would usually spend I am making it a point to donate food items to the local pantries.

Do you buy things you do not need? If so, in what area does your wasteful spending take place?

What's On

2010-02-02T15:01:00.000-06:00

At the beginning of the year, my family and I swore off television for 3 weeks. During this time we also downgraded our satellite services. At first I was little apprehensive about downgrading since the only channels we have now are the locals, kid friendly, and HGTV and FOOD network. The lack of tv has been really good for us. I must admit my husband spent too much time watching tv, and I spent too much time on the internet. So the downgrade has made us spend more quality time together. I think we took for granted having so much time together that we did not realize that we were not always making the most of the time that we were able to share. I had to realize that is not always about the quanity but the quality, and this has given me a new perspective about time and family.

How do you and your family spend quality time? Do you guys make the most of the time you are able to share with one another?

Happy Last Day of 2009

2009-12-31T10:28:00.000-06:00

Now, I am not one for New Year resolutions or promises I do not intend to keep. So you will not find a list of all the changes I vow to make by the end of 2010. But what I will do is continue on my path of being a better individual. This is not a temporary task for only the first weeks of the new year, but a path that I have been on for quite a while. I will continue to do all that I can to be a better mother, wife, teacher, friend, daughter, and person. I wish you all a wonderful last day of 2009, and I pray that 2010 will be even better. HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

Let's Support One Another

2009-12-29T13:33:00.000-06:00

Why as people many of us are less supportive of others? Folks tend to look for everything that is wrong in the next person's life or plan. I am honestly tired of it. I would much rather help that person strengthen him or herself and/or plan rather than knock the person down. And, I know we all need some constructive criticism to help us see our flaws, but seriously is it always needed. For quite a while, I have put forth effort to not dwell in negativity, and if I truly do not have anything nice to say I just keep it to myself. Now I am not saying that I am perfect, and that ill thoughts do not enter my mind, but I work to make sure that my good qualities shine through more often than my not so good qualities. So I will continue to do my part of helping others during their not so great points, and during the times when everything is going great.

Will you join in this task? How do you react to those that rarely have anything positive to say?

It's Finally Here

2009-12-28T08:04:00.000-06:00

We had our first snow of the season on Christmas. Now I really do not care for the cold weather, but I am slowly learning to deal with it. And one of my ways of dealing with the snow is declaring a mini-vacation. I turn into the relaxed ( maybe a little lazy) mom where the kids have free reign (well, sorta). I lounge on the couch with a nice warm blanket, and enjoy the fact of knowing that I will not be going anywhere. And, I mean anywhere.

But, since I have two children I had to concede, and at least take them out to play in the snow which lasted maybe 20 minutes. The girls helped Vic clear snow off the car while I shoveled a little. Ramya was really into playing in the snow until she became too wet. After she started to experience the cold air against her wet pants she was ready to go in the house. Dania really wasn't into playing in the snow. She preferred eating it. So she ate it and I prayed. All and all we had a great two day vacation. I'm really looking forward to the next one.

How's your weather? What do you do when it snows?

Staying Home

2009-12-16T21:00:00.000-06:00

Okay, over the past couple of days I have been wondering about my interaction with the girls. I am one of those overthinking mamas. I tend to analyze most things even those things that do not need to be analyzed. Although I must admit I have gotten a lot better. I guess the thing is that I am home a majority of the time with the girls so on some days I feel like I do not have to do as much with them. By this I mean not having to entertain with their toys and even skipping out on storytime. It isn't that I just want to ignore them, but at the same time I do have other things that I need and/or want to do. Basically, my thoughts are since I am home with them most of the time, am I suppose to be at their beckon call? Is it really realistic to think that since I am here that my entire focus should just be on the girls? I tend to think not, but that other side of me feels guilty when I choose to do something that isn't related to them such as researching, reading, or writing.

I doubt if I would have these exact feelings if I worked outside of the home. But, I am pretty sure I would be dealing with other types issues. So, what are moms suppose to do with all these feelings regarding their children?

A Lil' Weekend: The Princess and the Frog

2009-12-13T15:49:00.000-06:00

The first thing the girls reminded me on Friday was that The Princess and the Frog was now playing. They were totally excited about Princess Tiana being on the big screen. So, Vic, Dania, Ramya, and I went to a late afternoon showing of The Princess and the Frog. I must say we all enjoyed the movie, and Dania actually wanted to see it again on Saturday. This was the girls first movie in which they actually sat and watched the entire movie. They were even laughing and into the movie. They are really growing up.

If you happened to take your little princesses to see The Princess and the Frog this weekend, MyBrownBaby is having a giveaway of fabulous Princess and the Frog gear. So head on over and check it out.

To Dania, My First Born

2009-12-05T14:49:00.001-06:00

Five years ago, I gave birth to a delicate baby girl. The anxiety I felt as a new mother is unexplainable. After hearing, your first cry I knew there was no going back. It took nearly four hours before I was able to hold you in my arms, but since then we have been nearly inseparable. I must admit I was afraid. Afraid I wouldn't be able to care for you properly, afraid that I wouldn't know what your cries meant, afraid you wouldn't want much to do with me. Now, I look back at those fears, and realize that there wasn't a need for them. Yeah, at times I was unsure, but you were there to help me. You helped understand your likes and dislikes. You helped me to be more observant, and look for those things that were not always obvious.

Dania, I thank God for allowing me to mother and nurture such a special person. There are many moments I look at you and can't help but to smile. I am forever grateful for the gift God gave to me December 5, 2004. And today, I wish you a HAPPY FIFTH BIRTHDAY!!!

Okay, I think I am back for awhile

2009-12-02T15:12:00.000-06:00

So, I feel better although I still have a slightly stuffy nose, but I won't complain. We had an awesome Thanksgiving. Victor and I tag teamed dinner. He cooked the meats and a sweet potato casserole, and I cooked the rest of dinner and desserts. It made the job easier by cooking together.

What else has been going on? Well, I made a vow to start writing a kid's story, but I have not kept it. It just seems like my brain gets clogged with other stuff like kids, homeschooling, and being helpful to others so writing sometimes takes the backseat, but I know I have to do better. And, then I started reading a novel by Lyah Beth Leflore titled Wildflowers, and so I definitely can't focus on anything else when I get into a good book. I will be finished with it today so writing here I come.

How could I forget the planning of Dania's 5th birthday!!! She knows it is Saturday, and will not let anyone forget. I have learned it is her golden birthday since she will turn 5 on the 5th. I am not sure of what I am suppose to do to make it more spectacular than what it is since the only thing the child asked for was a CAKE. We did get her other gifts, but I am so happy that she does not have an extremely long list of wants. She is so simple, and I am truly thankful. I pray this lasts forever.

So what has been going on with you guys?

Sick Again?!

2009-11-22T09:54:00.000-06:00

I can't believe I am sick again. Yesterday, we went out to lunch, and when we left I knew I caught something. It always starts with a tingling in my nose. A few hours later, my head was hurting, my nose was runny, and mucous was building along with an itchy throat. All I can say is why me? I call myself taking good care, but evidently not. I wash my hands a million times, I get plenty of rest (at least 8 hours), and I eat pretty well too. So what can I do to keep from getting under the weather? Last time I was sick for three consecutive weeks, and I am definitely not feeling that especially since Thanksgiving is Thursday. I look forward to cooking a good meal for my family. I guess I will be drugging myself and praying that this crude will soon pass. On a positive note, no one in my family has gotten sick so I am very thankful for this.

Any ideas on how to keep from getting sick?

This Week: Homeschooling

2009-11-19T21:01:00.001-06:00

I must admit each week gets easier and easier. We have now fallen into a schedule which is somewhat predictable, but it is still flexible. All of the kids appreciate what is going to happen next, but easily adapts when we take a different route. This month was the first month I shared scriptures with kids. When we first decided to homeschool I was not sure of bible study during our lessons, but the more I thought about it I figured why not. So we learned Romans 1:8 and Psalms 107:1. The kids were able to read most of the words alone, and the scriptures were simple to explain especially since God's presence is with us. Outside of incorporating the bible into our studies they shared what the were thankful for, and the first two answers were God and Jesus. Of course, I was happy. Although, I understand they may or may not have a complete understanding of why they are thankful, but at least they acknowledge Him instead of items. They both also said they were thankful for family.

Also, we made a fruit basket to give to a neighbor in acknowledgement of Thanksgiving. The kids enjoyed picking out the fruit and placing it in the basket. That's the basket above. They were so proud of their creation. They also baked pecan pies. They did an awesome job of putting the ingredients together, but the baker let the pies bake a little too long. I won't disclose who the baker was, but I am sure you guys can guess.
How has your week been? Did you try something new?

A Relaxin Weekend

2009-11-16T20:56:00.000-06:00

I don't remember the last time I did something without my family. Maybe this was the first weekend I have ever done such a thing, but I truly enjoyed it. I didn't do much, but it was still refreshing. Actually I just wandered around visiting stores that I don't normally go to, and talking to folks I rarely talk to on the phone but actually was able to catch up with in person. I must admit it was nice. It was nice to not have a time limit, and to actually take in the environment I was in at the particular moment. It was awesome to have a conversation with other adults without children vying for attention whether mine or theirs. I have declared that I must have a day to myself at least once a month even if I do just wander aimlessly.

How do you spend time alone? Do you spend the time doing something for yourself or are you still catering to others needs?

Going Natural!

2009-11-11T15:16:00.000-06:00

At the beginning of this year, I started to have thoughts of going natural. I was tired of relaxing my hair, and having to sit in the salon for 3 or more hours. My hair became more of a chore even though it was cut into a short style. I did not feel comfortable if it wasn't styled which interfered with other aspects of my life. So after debating if I should keep doing what I have been doing or trying something new, my wonderful husband pushed me in the direction of cutting it all off. Now, my hair isn't as short as my husband's. I went without a relaxer for awhile so when it was cut I would not be bald.

I am happy to say I love my new hair style. I am still learning about taking care of my natural hair. It is different than having a relaxer. I now have been on the search for products that interact well with my particular hair. So far, I like Karen's Body Beautiful. It is light and makes my hair feel soft. Just what I need. This journey into the natural state has also help me to better understand my girls' hair. I am more mindful of the products we use, and have become a hair product label reader. For those who know me, y'all know I do not buy food before reading the label. I have to know what is going into our bodies, and now I have to know what is going on our hair.

Do you know of any good natural hair products? If so, share.

Halloween

2009-10-30T10:46:00.000-05:00

In our home Halloween is no big deal. It is just another day. The girls do not get costumes, there are no parties, and no trick or treating. As of yet, there's no questioning about costumes and dressing up. And to tell the truth I like this. I like not having an extra thing to dedicate my time and energy. I like not having to get into the tradition of celebrating a holiday that is not relevant to our family beliefs. Do I believe the girls are missing out on something? Nope. Celebrating Halloween is not the epitome of childhood. Celebrating childhood is what is important, and we do this everyday. Ramya is still young, but Dania knows Halloween exists. She has yet to ask us anything about a costume. Believe me when I say several other children have asked her what she will be, and she calmly replies "nothing." I appreciate her willingness to go with the flow most of the time.

So, do you and/or your family follow the norm? If not, is there a struggle to do things differently?

I want to ride a school bus

2009-10-29T13:26:00.001-05:00

Dania is fascinated by school buses. She expresses to me quite often that she will ride a school bus when she gets bigger. She has been on one. I think it was probably the highlight of her life. So yesterday while we were out there were quite a few buses on the road since it was the afterschool rush, Dania again expresses her need to ride a school bus. We enter a dialogue.

Me: Dania you won't be able to ride a school bus since we homeschool. You have to go to a school to ride a bus.

Dania: Well, you can be my teacher at school.

Me: No, that can't happen. We would have to build our own school for that.

Dania: Mom, that's a good idea. Maybe we can get some wood to build our school.

I didn't have anything else to say after that. I think she is going to make riding a school bus happen one way or another.

Lack of posts

2009-10-23T08:06:00.000-05:00

There were no posts this week because I am sick. I feel a little better now, and I am thankful no one else in my family is under the weather. I pray it stays that way.

Below are two additional posts. I hope you guys enjoy!

Have an awesome weekend!!

Others' Perspectives

2009-10-23T08:05:00.000-05:00

So what does it mean when a friend says "You have changed." or "I didn't expect you to be this way." My initial thoughts are "well, what did you expect?" It is funny how a short time period can define who you may be. I say this because I am honestly surprised by my friends' viewpoints of me. I understand how those I may have met during particular points of my life may think I am a certain way based on a short time, but those that I have known before I would have thought they knew me better.

Since reflecting, I realize that nearly everyone I interact with only have snapshot of my life. They only hear or see a lil of this and a lil of that. Very few of my friends I communicate with on a weekly basis; some I only speak with quarterly or semiannually. Truly how can they assess me? I also came to the conclusion that when I hear the words "you have changed" it mostly relates to my family life, and how I interact with my husband and daughters. My thoughts are I have matured, I desire to be the best wife and mother I am able to be, and I am willing to work to keep myself and my family at peace. I can't say that I have changed from being single and free to becoming a married mother. I had no thoughts about marriage or motherhood while I was single. I have to say you can't honestly compare a single person to a married counterpart because the circumstances are different. My personality is still the same. I am still the same sensitive, patient, hardworking, and caring person I was before marriage. I believe that when change is noticed it usually means that a person's situation and/or circumstances have changed therefore how they react or interact may not be the same as how the person responded in the past. Simply stated, when you know
better you do better.

Do you believe you have changed meaning has your personality change? Or do you believe your changes are based on your circumstances? Share your thoughts.

This Week: Homeschooling

2009-10-23T07:36:00.001-05:00

Our week was pretty lax. We went to the apple orchard on Monday. The kids really enjoyed it. The orchard has a playground which had cool tire swings that resembled horses, an old school bus, trikes of all sizes, and more. We didn't pick any apples, but the kids were able to get some from the market along with apple cider doughnuts.

Brayden was sick on Tuesday so it was just the girls and me. We had school on the couch; we basically reviewed skills. We played a new game which uses puzzle pieces to make sentences. It didn't last long.

Wednesday is Spanish Day. The kids love Spanish class with Ms. Ramos. They are always looking forward to Wednesdays.

Thursday was a rough day. I am still recovering so I had little patience. I usually say patience is my best quality, but it was slowly running out. I believe the kids were taking advantage of my sickness so they received a minilesson on how to be respectful even if the teacher is a little weak and tired. They basically were not listening and trying to get away with unacceptable behavior. After my lesson, Dania told me I scared her, but my answer to that was you would not be afraid if you did what is expected all of the time.

Today is Friday, and all I can say is WOOHOO! I know next week will be better!

Little Sister, Big Sister

2009-10-15T09:00:00.000-05:00

When I gave birth to our first daughter, I did not truly understand motherhood and all it entails. Shoot. I now have two daughters, and is still learning about motherhood and all it entails. One thing I did not realize when we delivered our second daughter was the little sister, big sister role.

The girls are totally all about one another. Dania is forever looking out for her little sister. She tells us "That's not nice" when we have to discipline Ramya. She is not for her sister getting taps on the hands or legs. It isn't like she doesn't receive this same discipline, but she does not speak up for herself like she does for her little sister.

Ramya adores her big sister. She mimicks her, follows her, and repeats her. Luckily, we have made it a point to teach Dania good things so Ramya really doesn't pick up bad habits except for waking in the middle of the night in coming in our room. Ramya tries things that Dania has not even consider doing.

What really made start thinking about the affects they have on each other was when I heard Ramya say "It's heavy." I was thinking when did she learn that. Her sister is her teacher in a lot of ways. During school time, Dania makes a point to say letters, numbers, and words to her. Sometimes she even lets her know when she is doing something that may hurt her or something that is considered unacceptable in our household. And as of lately, they have been playing mommy and baby which is funny to me since an almost 5 year old is carrying a 2 year old who is nearly her size. Watching the girls show their love for one another is warming to my heart. I am thankful that I was blessed to guide and nature these two little ones.

Do your children have strong bonds with one another? What role do you play in maintaining positive relationships with your children? If you are childless, did your parents make a point in making sure you and your siblings were loving in caring to one another? How did they do this?

Today I Declare...

2009-10-14T16:24:00.000-05:00

resting in His glory and grace
not fretting about what others' may or may not think of me and/or my decisions
enjoying each day
teaching and learning from our children
making the most of our family time
having a more positive outlook even in the worst situations
smiling more often
being comfortable with my choices sharing in any and all ways I can with those I come in contact
making "me" time
eating out less

Although some of these things I already do, I want to become better.

What do you declare in your life?

This Week: Homeschooling

2009-10-07T15:07:00.001-05:00

So far, so good. This is how I would describe our week thus far. The children are really growing in their reading ability. I smile each time I listen to them sound out new words. Not only am I smiling, I can hear the proudness in their voices. They are so enthused about their accomplishments. Outside of reading and math, we have finally incorporated science and social studies. These subjects are combined since they are still young. We started a unit on the seven continents. Each month beginning in October we will focus on a continent and its animals. This month we are learning about Asia, and the first animal we learned about was an elephant. The children seem excited about learning something new. Also, they are able to tell time on the hour. So you know they are constantly telling me the time.

How is your week going?

Simply Stated

2009-10-02T07:12:00.001-05:00

I am at peace. Last week I was in a funk, I must admit. Unsure of the consequences, both positive and negative, of our decisions may render. It's funn how now those thoughts are a distant past. This week has been more reflective and acknowledging of the blessings we receive daily. I am definitely thankful that I am at this peaceful place resting in His grace.

I am not sure what next week ore not even what tomorrow holds, but I know I will embrace it.

Have a happy, safe, and blessed weekend!!!

Change of plans

2009-09-29T12:50:00.000-05:00

Well, I was going to post about our weekend. This is my plans for Mondays, but yesterday I did not get around to posting. So, I was going to write about it today. But I can't find my usb cord for the camera, and I really wanted to upload pictures with the post. So anyway, this post is not about our weekend.

As I was searching for the usb cable I realized that things around here have started to disappear. I keep the usb cable in the same location. I. Never. Move. It. Seriously, I keep it in the basket under the computer desk since it is only used to download photos to the computer. So, what happened to it? Probably the same thing that happened to my keys which have been missing since September 2. Yes, September 2, almost a month. I have searched everywhere, at least that is what I thought, but they have still yet to surface. I figured the keys were wherever my wedding bands were. Yes, they were lost too. I have found the rings. They were under a storage container in the closet. Don't ask me how they ended up there. I have always been so proud of my memory, but is it starting to fail me?

The sad part is if my husband mentions my missing keys I get angry. I know I did not lose them. Someone else had to put their little fingers on them. Yes, I am blaming the kids. I refuse to admit that I have mommy brain. I am just too young for that.

Have you ever lost something and found it in the strangest location?

Staying Positive

2009-09-24T12:43:00.001-05:00

Have you ever saw yourself in a totally different position than where you are? These have been my images for the past few weeks. Our family has started on different path. As a family, we are doing things that are more pleasing to us rather than going the safe route. In the process of making different choices there come struggles. My husband and I consciously made the decision to homeschool and start our business. I know that business does not start booming the day you make the decision, but since I have a "little" issue with patience this is a problem for me. Don't get me wrong I am patient and tolerate of people and their choices, but when it comes to things I believe I can control now that's another story. So what happens when my thoughts get the best of me, I go on a job search to see if there are any teaching positions open. I do not know why I do this to myself. I know good and well I can't take a full-time teaching position nor would a full-time teaching position be beneficial for my family. After all that, I am now doing what I should always do which is be thankful for the time I have with my family and the opportunities I have been blessed with instead of pondering about what I am not doing or what I do not have.

Do your thoughts ever overtake you? If so, what do you do about it?

A Lil' Weekend: Our First Pumpkin Festival

2009-09-21T12:32:00.004-05:00

We truly enjoyed the Morton Pumpkin Festival. The girls were excited when we arrived in Morton which is 20 minutes from our home. They did not know what to expect, but once we made it to Main Street the girls noticed there were alot of people. The sidewalks were full of people staking their spot for the upcoming parade. As we stood there I had an eyeopener, this was Dania's first parade. In all of her four years she had never attended a parade.

So, she did not know that candy was thrown from the passing floats or bands marched and played their instruments. But I believe the most amazing part for the her was that they threw candy and she could actually pick it up. This was a comedic moment. The girls were not like the other children who stood very close to the edge to ensure they receive candy. Our girls were sitting on the curb eating goldfish, and was thankful when my husband, the guy standing behind him (who gave them their curbside seating), and me handed them candy. Amazing! This was not what I expected. I thought they were going to be just as into it as the other children, but as time went on I decided I had to teach my babies the rules of parades. The candy throwers were passing them over. So I took them closer to the street. And, from that moment they were not overlooked, and there came the excitement. And the big question, "Can we eat our candy now?" Guess I shouldn't have shown them how to get more candy.

This Week's Adventures

2009-09-18T12:48:00.006-05:00

So, I have been trying to customize the blog so it will be more of a reflection of me. I have not had much luck, but that's okay. I at least have cool tags for the sidebar. It will take me a little time to figure this thing out. Anyhoo, I successfully created a website for my home-based business, http://www.helpinghandtutoring.com/. I am very proud of myself.

Outside of the time I spent on the internet, we accomplished a lot in school. The kids are very enthusiastic about learning. What more could a mother hope for!? They take out their books, and want to do all the pages. I am like "hold on, we can't do it all today". This helps me become more comfortable with homeschooling. Although it has been over a month when my husband and I decided to homeschool, I recently (meaning the other day) have become comfortable with saying "I am a homeschooling mom." Being a teacher, I heard the thoughts of what some teachers think about homeschooling, and yes those thoughts had entered my realm of thinking. But now I can say proudly, this is the best choice for my family, and the young boy that learns along with my children. Teaching them brings more joy each day, and for this I am thankful.

What simple things bring you joy?

Entry #1

2009-09-12T13:31:00.002-05:00

Today I decided to finally bring this blog to life. So since this is the first post, why not share what this blog is all about. A little of this...a little of that is a reflection of things that contribute to my being. Some days I may write about the wonderful man in my life, my husband or my adventures in homeschooling. If I am in the mood to just talk about myself, you may hear about my progress as a writer and mompreneur.

This blog was created to be a delight, and hopefully motivate people who are experiencing some of the things that I endure. So enjoy and come along as I continue to on this journey. Please feel free to post comments or contribute.